go to the ebay help forums to find out how to mutually withdraw feedback, nuetral feedback doesn't tarnish one's record, but its not really that good, if you got what you expected, paid the price, and it was shipped to you within a week, theres no reason you shouldn't leave positive feedback, try contacting the seller, if you tell him what you told us, he should withdraw his statement and do one of those mutually withdrawn things, then you guys can start all over again
